Wednesday, January 20, 2016

An Ordinary Momma's Guide to Disney


Yes, we recently returned from a week at Disney!  It was our gift to ourselves for Christmas.  I do not believe in "we deserve" because frankly no one deserves anything.  But friends, we needed this trip. A year apart from dad and husband took its toll on us all and we needed some family time away from real life to bond and reconnect.  We spent a year saving up (more on that soon) and did it big!  Next year you will find us vacationing in the back yard.  You CAN do Disney thriftily, but you CANNOT do Disney cheaply.  No matter what anyone says.

There are a million books and websites out there with helpful hints for "doing" Disney!  Trust me, I know, because I have read a lot of them.  And some of the hints were very helpful.  But, I am an ordinary momma with mostly ordinary kids! ;)  And there are a few things I learned our trip that I think need to be shared. 

Mom to mom!

Don't wear shirts that have to be tucked in. No laughing. Because we went in January we also had on light weight jackets. Pair that with an over the body bag and trying to get a shirt tucked in in the small restroom stalls was a pain.  Drove me crazy the whole trip.

If you are paying as you go for meals, share when you can!  The portions at most Disney dining locations are very large!  I felt like we ate our way through Disney!  


Order water!  Even if you pay for a bottle once, you can refill it for free.  To take the boredom factor out, we took lemonade packets with us to add to them occasionally.

Consider the Disney Dining Plan!  After being a wife of a deployed husband for a year, I needed a break from even having to think about meals so we splurged in this option.  I could not say how much we saved, but I will tell you that without the dining plan, lunches would have cost anywhere from $70 to almost $300 for our family of six.  Now, that was with drinks and dessert which we would not have gotten if not on the dining plan, but still- it is expensive.  Swiping your bands and knowing you have already paid in advance was wonderful!

That being said - get Disney's Magic Bands!  They are your room keys (if staying on property), meal plan, Fast Pass+, and PhotoPass hook up.  No more pulling out your wallet everywhere and so, so easy!  Plus fun!




Snacks!  Disney does allow you to take food in and trust me this is cheaper!  In the past, we allowed the kids to split a special park snack once a day.  Yes, I am frugal like that!  On the basic meal plan you can get one snack a day.  I was worried it might not be enough.  HA!  What a joke.  Because of all the food and desserts at meals, we found ourselves not wanting snacks several days.  Best advice we have heard- pick up snacks that can be easily taken and enjoyed on your trip home.  We had Disney cookies and crackers all the way home, plus a few bottled waters and other drinks!



Go on off times!  We have gone to Disney at busy times and waited in long lines.  And waited some more.  Not a lot of fun.  But if you are flexible I encourage you to check for reservations for off times.  We rarely waited in line more than 10 minutes.  A few times not at all. This was the line to Lights, Motor, Action.  Yep, just us.  It did pick up after us because we were really early, but still- it was great!


Make reservations to eat!  If you are planning to eat at a sit-down restaurant, make reservations in advance.  We rarely waited more than 10 minutes for our table when wait times were often over an hour long.  I recommend doing counter service at lunch and sit-down at dinner but that is just my preference.  It seemed that when we were looking for counter service in the evening, they were more crowded or harder to find. Most also seem to close early- probably in an attempt to send you to a more expensive sit-down meal at night.

Tell your kids no to buying souvenirs on the first day!  There is so much to see and buy that it is easy for young kids to become overwhelmed with all the choices.  Our "no buying on the first day" rule took the pressure off.


If you pass a bathroom, use it!  It is less stressful to make pit stops frequently than to be hunting for a bathroom NOW!  

Sleep in occasionally.  Disney can wear you out!  Take advantage of sleeping in on a day that a park has later hours.  Your children will thank me. So will your husband!


Consider waiting until the kids are older. I remember it being fun to see the excitement of my kids at Disney when they were younger, but honestly, taking older kids is so much better in my opinion.  I know, I know, there is that whole Disney Magic thing.  But I will have to tell you, we saw more toddler meltdowns and frazzled parents than I care to remember.  It was sad.  For the parents and the kids.  At 8, Colby enjoyed this trip so much more because of no fears and because he could do so much more.  Just something to think about.  



Let someone else do the planning.  I have been in charge of this family for a year.  I am so done making decisions and being in charge.  So I let a Disney expert help me.  Our friend Stacy works for Kingdom Konsultants and we let her work her magic.  She took care of our reservations, meal plan, and park tickets.  Before the trip we received a pack of goodies from her and she even checked on us once when we first arrived.  Between she and my friend Marcy, (who loves Disney almost as much as Riley!  Thanks Marcy!) we were in good hands.

Assign a kid a day!  Speaking of planning, each day we were in a park a different child was "in charge" of that day.  They chose where we ate, what we rode, and what we saw. We followed their lead.  It was great.  One, I did not have to be in charge, and two, there was no debating the schedule. We just follow the lead of the one in charge.  (Though the youngest had a little guidance.)

More pictures, some thoughts about Disney property and more on Friday and next Monday!  I promise not to drag it out too long, but there is so much to share.

Blessings,

Monday, January 18, 2016

34 Weeks of Clean Revisited

If you are not familiar with my 34 Weeks of Clean series, you will want to start by reading the intro post- 34 Weeks of Clean Intro.


It was a project born out of the need to keep busy during my husband's year long deployment, but turned into a passion I did not even know I had.  Yes, I have always loved lists and schedules and calendars and been a little type-A about my house, but what I did not realize was how passionate I was about helping others take control of their homes and the stuff within.  34 Weeks gave me the opportunity to share some hints I have learned along the way and since then has even allowed me to speak with a local MOPS group about how to declutter and clean, making your house a place that will filled with God's peace, allowing you to open your home to others.

34 Weeks took off and we have been thrilled to be able to share with readers our ebook that my friend and co-conspirator, Kemi Quinn, put together with me.  Kemi was the magic behind all the amazing printables and my cheerleader for the entire project.  I could not have done it without her! Kemi blogs at Homemaking Organized, and I encourage you to go check out her site!

34 weeks not only became a verb in our home and others, you know- "What happened to that basket?" "Oh, mom 34 weeked it!" but it also buried itself deeper and deeper into my heart.  We never run out of the need to clean, declutter, and take control of our homes.  It is NOT a one time deal, as nice as that would be.  As one friend and participant said, there is a need to rinse and repeat!

This may that time for you.  Or maybe you are new to 34 weeks and need a good, fresh start!  Well, here it is.  A complete list of all of our projects, one week at a time.

And yes, do them one week at a time.  Slow and steady wins the race and those who have gone before you will tell you that you will wear yourselves out fast if you plunge forward.

Week 1- Holiday Decorations
Week 2- The Pantry
Week 3- Kitchen Cabinets and Doors
Week 4- Fridge, Freezers, and Floors
Week 5- Recipes
Week 6- The Stove and Dreaded Loose Ends
Week 7- The Dining Room
Week 8- The Living Room
Week 9- Books
Week 10- The Entryway
Week 11- Bathrooms
Week 12- The Family Room + DVDs
Week 13- Pictures and Scrapbooks
Week 14- Arts & Crafts
Week 15- The Master Bedroom
Week 16- The Master Closet
Week 17- The Master Bath
Week 18- Half-time
Week 19- The Bedrooms 1 & 2
Week 20- The Bedrooms 3+
Week 21- The Hall Closet
Week 22- The Laundry Room/Mud Room
Week 23- The Linen Closet
Week 24- The Porch and Deck
Week 25- The Yard
Week 26- The Storage Room/Attic
Week 27- Clothes Storage
Week 28- The School Room
Week 29- The Office (Paperwork and Bills)
Week 30- The Computer
Week 31- Address Books & Office
Week 32- The Garage
Week 33- The Cars
Week 34- The Finale

And while you get started, know that I am cheering you on- while I am busy writing 34 Weeks of Clean- The Book!

If you participated at all last year, whether the whole time or just hit or miss, I would love for you to share your favorite week (or the one that made all the difference for you)with our readers !  Mine was the master closet!

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Blessings,

Friday, January 15, 2016

Salvation's Tide is Rising- CD review and giveaway

To start our year off with a bang, FlyBy productions has blessed us with the opportunity to listen to a new CD, Salvation's Tide is Rising from Passion.  If you are not familiar with Passion (I wasn't), it is a yearly Christian conference with a goal of  "mission--calling students from campuses across the nation and around the world to live for what matters most."  It was founded in 1995 by Louie Giglio, pastor and founder of Passion City Church in Atlanta, Georgia.  Since 1998, the group has decided to document the musical side of the conference, resulting in an amazing collection of praise and worship music sung by many favorite artists from around the country.

You are in for a treat with this one, featuring songs written just for the conference and featuring artists like Chris Tomlin, Matt Redman, and Crowder.



I love having praise and worship music playing in our house as a backdrop for our day, but as my kids get older it becomes harder to find songs that everyone likes.  Let's face it, those cute kid-led CDs can only get you so far.  Passion's Salvation's Tide is Rising has fit the bill well for our muti-aged family and found a permanent place in my music lineup.  No surprise since the artists are ones on the top charts these days. The songs are beautiful, easy to listen to, and speak of the many truths of God and His character.  I loved them all, but must admit that God and God Alone was my favorite!  Who else is a Chris Tomlin fan?

Other songs include-

1.  Salvation's Tide is Rising - Passion featuring Kristian Stanfill
2.  My Victory - Passion featuring Crowder
3.  Remember - Passion featuring Brett Younker & Melodie Malone
4.  God & God Alone - Passion featuring Chris Tomlin
5.  Simple Pursuit - Passion featuring Melodie Malone
6.  I Turn to Christ - Passion featuring Matt Redman
7.  Your Grace Amazes Me - Passion featuring Christy Nockels
8.  All We Sinners - Passion featuring Crowder
9.  Surrender - Passion featuring Jimi Cravity
10. Good Good Father - Passion featuring Kristian Stanfill 

You can get a copy of this great CD even before it is released at the end of the month!  Just leave your name in the comments along with a way I can reach you and a random winner will be chosen next Friday!

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Blessings,

Home Is Where the Air Force Sends You

Now that we are settled in this will be our last post about moving, promise.  I did, however, promise a few tips we learned along the way and friends are waiting for a few pictures, so here goes.

34 Week Your House!  Really- it is a verb now!  Prior to this move we ran our 34 Weeks of Clean Series.  (Updated post coming on Monday!) The less STUFF you have sitting around, the less you have to pack and unpack.  Wanna know how much we got rid of?  We went from having three or four packers for three days, to two packers for two days!  I told you I got rid of a lot of stuff!

Do NOT put every box into your house.  This move we had just over 300 boxes.  If you have the movers stack all of those boxes in your house you will have nowhere to move.  Instead, in our garage we have them make neat rows of any boxes that are not full of dishes or heavy books, or easy to open and put away immediately.  That way we not only have more room, but we can open a few at a time and not be overwhelmed.  At the end of the day the garage door can close and you can pretend you are settled.  Until the next day, at least!


Open boxes as they are unloaded.  This is a job I give my kids.  If they see a box that says something simple like blankets, lamps, or lampshades, they unpack it as soon as it is brought in, collapse the box, and make a stack of boxes outside the front door.  By doing so, we probably send 30-50 boxes out with the movers when they leave at the end of the day.

Know where your furniture is going and get it there quickly.  That way once you start unpacking there is a place to put things. YOU can always rearrange later if you need to.


Assign each family member a room and have them work on that room!  Wandering from room to room is distracting and gets you nowhere.  Stay in one room and get it done before moving on.  The kids start with their own rooms first, but once done they move on to help in another room.

Unpack things where they belong.  In other words, take it out of the box and put it where it goes.  No stacking on counters allowed.  Touch things once, not multiple times.


Work for a set amount of time and then be done.  Work hard, then play hard.  At the end of the day, walk away from it all and relax.  It will still be waiting for you in the morning, but if you are exhausted and cranky it makes for a longer day.

Hang pictures last!  This is hard for me because I want things back to "normal" as fast as possible, but take a lesson from one who has messed up before- hold off on hanging things 'til the end.  In case you decide that chair or bed is not where you want it to be.  Just saying.


Don't expect perfection for a while.  Put things away, but know that you can always make changes later on.


Our home is always a work in progress and this one is no exception.  There are several projects I want to work on, but Rome was not built in a day, right?  Until then, we are learning to be a family of six once again, and thanking God for His provision this past year and for blessing us with the place we now call home!

Come visit us!



Blessings, 

Wednesday, January 13, 2016

How to Move in 5 Easy Steps


Yes, we have finished moving.  And are all unpacked with the exception of our garage and my husband's professional gear.  From the actual date the furniture and boxes were delivered it took one week.  People keep asking me how we do it so fast.  It is not that we are just good at it, it is that we are well practiced!  This was our 14th move in 23 years, after all.

But before I share a few tips on how we settle in so easily, I want to share a few tips on what helps us through the actual move itself.  OK, so maybe EASY isn't the best descriptor, but they do help for sure.

Invest in blow-up mattresses.  This was not a problem for us when we owned a RV, but unless you want to spend a ton of money on a hotel, just go on and invest in blow-up mattresses.  Call us gluttons for punishment, but once we have a place to call home, we want to BE there.  So yes, while we wait for our furniture to be delivered, we camp in our house!

This is Salem's mess. I mean, stuff. 
Take the necessities!  Don't forget these essentials-
  • cleaning supplies
  • crockpot- you WILL get tired of eating out
  • plates and utensils- this can be as easy as paper products but don't forget them!
  • a set of sheets and a blanket and pillow for each person
  • a set of towels for each person
  • a shower liner and rings to hang it in case you do not have glass doors on your shower.
  • clothes and toiletries for each family member
  • a touch of home - for small kids this may mean a security item or night light, for olders it might be a beloved book or blanket
Take a cooler and basic pantry items with you.  Even if you have to add ice to your cooler every day, it still beats having to start over and replace everything in your refrigerator.  Plus, again, and trust me when I say this, you WILL get tired of eating out.  Not to mention there is less likelihood of getting sick when you are eating healthy, home-cooked food. A word of warning, packing honey in glass containers can result in a sticky mess.  Consider this your public service announcement.  You are welcome.

Take along a few family games and movies.  Tension runs high during moves.  The best thing you can do is schedule down time with some fun activities and normalcy to the day.  We tend to not be TV watchers, but unwinding with a quick movie now and then or playing a few games at night helps us refocus on each other and relax.

Get some rest!  As crazy as things get before and after a move, you need to take time to rest. Pushing yourself to the brink of exhaustion will not make for a fun person.  Or a healthy one.  Put yourself on a schedule and when the buzzer rings, walk away from the boxes and paper and be done for the day. It will all be waiting for you in the morning, trust me!

Moving is not easy, but it can be done - even 14 times in 23 years! ;)  Maybe this will be the last one.

Blessings,